Friday, 30 September 2011

Brighten Up!

Primary colours brighten up the room
          I usually use positive self-talk to help with a declining mood.  Sometimes I choose bright colours in my wardrobe to add some pep to my step.  Today I realized that the only three balloons left on the wall (after my mother's birthday party) were the red, yellow and blue ones shown in the picture.  I took them down, taped them to sticks and placed them in the middle of the dining room table.  The effect was immediate- a smile crossed my face. 
         When living in Sint Maarten last year we discovered an artist by the name of Minguet, whose gallery was on our way home from work.  His work is colourful, bright and attractive.  Our daughter liked it, so we picked up a half dozen posters to be framed.  My husband decided to make frames and the result is shown below.  As of yesterday we now have four framed Minguets in our home.  Another happy place for me! 
          In the meantime, my brother-in-law had his first chemotherapy treatment yesterday.  So far, so good.  My plan is to continue to add cheer to his life, as he adds to ours in so many ways. 

Until next time,


Bee Rich
My favourite Minguet


Mastering Swimming- in the Pool!

Summer Swimming Spot
          As a gift to myself this fall, I have joined the local Masters swimming program. I have traded the clear, clean, and very COLD lake water for the churning, chlorinated and comfortable Perth Pool on Tuesday and Thursday evenings. 
          My inspiration comes from my daughter, who recently moved to Scotland.  Upon her arrival in Aberdeen, she found a masters swim program and appears to be enjoying the fitness, fun and fellowship that can be had in an adult sports program.
          Masters Swimming- the older you get, the better you were, sums up my experience so far.  I am not discouraged.  The workouts are challenging, the people are kind, and the team co-action is exactly what I need at this time.  It is my happy place. 

Until next time,

Bee Rich

A happy place!

          
   

Thursday, 29 September 2011

A Gift of Love and Warmth


Grandson Mac with his Dad on Skype

     You can see from this picture our grandson is growing.  So many changes have occurred during his two month lifetime- he is now staring at objects and following them with his eyes, smiling at smiles and reaching for objects, including the computer!  We are fortunate that our son and daughter-in-law keep in touch with Skype and that we are able to visit every once in a while. Such a joy to know that this little life has made so many others so happy. 
     On the other end of the life spectrum are the many people who are suffering from the ravages of cancer, including some members of our family.  We went to an information session this week at The Ottawa Hospital Regional Cancer Centre, which was helpful and informative.  The volunteer leading the session was caring, knowledgeable, and supportive.
     The presentation raised my awareness of cancer and chemotherapy.  For example,
  • cancer is a group of more than 120 different diseases with a common factor:  cells growing rapidly and in an uncontralloable pattern
  • chemotherapy affects the rapidly dividing cells of cancer
  • the medications in the chemotherapy are individualized and mixed after the person arrives for treatment
  • after chemotherapy a person's white blood cells, specifically neutrophils, can be lowered which leaves the person more vulnerable to infection
     Today is my brother-in-law's first chemotherapy treatment in Ottawa.  He is nervous, yet hopeful.  So many people are on his side.  Friends, family, medical practitioners, nurses, homecare workers, even strangers! 
     A few days ago he received A Gift of Love and Warmth from Victoria's Quilts of Canada, a ministry founded in 1998.  It is a beautiful quilt made by the loving hands of the ladies of the Bolingbroke Branch of Victoria's Quilts.  We all shed tears when the quilt arrived at our home. Thank you to the family member who ordered this lovely gift.   
     If you have a loved one who has cancer, you may order a quilt for him or her, through the following organization. 

Victoria's Quilts Canada
454-1568 Merivale Road
Ottawa, ON K2G 5Y7
http://www.victoriasquiltscanada.com

A gift of love and warmth
Until next time,

Bee Rich
      

Monday, 26 September 2011

Monday, Already!

The changing seasons along Highway 7.
     It was a quick trip to Guelph this past weekend to "babysit" for my favourite grandson.  His parents and extended family were all at a family wedding and we had been booked for months to make the trip. 

  • Unfortunately, my number one husband could not come with me as he had other duties at home. 
  • Fortunately I got to spend 7 or 8 one-on-one hours with two month old MacArthur.  Certainly a privilege. 
  • Unfortunately, just as he was settled in for the night, his father texted and asked me to bring him to the wedding reception for a final feeding. 
  • Fortunately, I was able to mapquest the address and drove the baby to the reception. 
  •  Unfortunately, I was wearing babysitting clothes and not wedding clothes. 
  • Fortunately, that didn't matter and I did manage to touch base with the in-laws. 
  • Unfortunately, the parents wanted the baby to stay at the reception and he was passed around from great aunt to great aunt. 
  • Fortunately, I was dismissed from my duties at around midnight and then drove back to Guelph for a short sleep before heading back to Little Silver Lake on Sunday morning. 
It was a quick, but much appreciated trip to spend quality time with one of the most important people in my life. Here is what I experienced:
  • Hours of CBC programming on the car radio
  • Satisfying fall colours along the highways of Ontario
  • Warm hugs from family members
  • Hours of cuddling baby Mac
  • Successful bottle feeding, burping and diaper changing
  • Sound sleep and peaceful dreams.
I am truly blessed. 

Until next time,

Bee Rich!

Thursday, 22 September 2011

It's Thursday!

Number One Grandson!
       Today I am alone as hubby and his brother are off to Ottawa again for an appointment.  So, what to do?  My list is sitting on the dining  room table, dutifully written as directed by my main man.
        However, I have been fighting a chest cold and know that a little rest is overdue.  So, my plan is tea and toast, my blanket and a good book, at least for the morning. 
        Some pretty busy days are ahead.  Tonight I am venturing in to the Perth Pool for my first masters swimming workout.  While employed at the pool four years ago, I watched with envy as the adult swimmers gracefully kicked and pulled their way from end to end of the 25 metre pool.  This evening I will join their ranks once per week.
       Then, this weekend, we will travel to Guelph to spend time with the number one grandson while mommy and daddy party at a wedding.  I can't wait to cuddle!
       Finally, as the weekend comes to an end, I will drive to Ottawa to take a refresher first aid instructor course and spend the night at my brother's home.  So much to look forward to! 
        Today I am thankful for my relatively good health, which enables me to do the things I love to do.  Wishing you the same blessings. 

Until next time,


Bee Rich
        

Wednesday, 21 September 2011

Optimism vs. Pessimism

Dedicated to my loving sister!
The optimist lives on the peninsula of infinite possibilities; the pessimist is stranded on the island of perpetual indecision."
                                                                            ~ William Arthur Ward


       On Facebook today the quote above popped up and made me stop to think deeply about the difference between optimism and pessimism.  I have always believed that the difference lies in how one perceives the glass- half full or half empty.  Such a simple thought.  It also reminds me of what one should do when life throws you lemons- make lemonade. 
       I once worked with a student who was perpetually unhappy.  Life had been very rough for her throughout school and she landed in the special education classroom where I was teaching.  One day, after a long conversation about her feelings, I reached behind her, pretending to push a button.  "It's time for you to turn on the happy switch."  Miraculously she changed her attitude, her outlook and her behaviour.
       The point is that we can choose our responses to the situations around us. We can smile and see what we can do about the challenge, or we can frown and fret and worry our way through our problems.  So, turn that frown upside down and turn on your happy switch.  It won't make your difficulties go away, but may help you make a decision on the best course of action for you. 

Until tomorrow,

Bee Rich
        


    

Tuesday, 20 September 2011

A Day Off?

      
       Today is a day off! It is just me and the dogs in our home on the lake. The weather forecast is cloudy with showers and I am planning my day.  My husband and his brother are in Ottawa for medical consultations. The dogs are asleep in their respective locations.  I have time to pause and reflect over the events of the past few days and then plan my day ahead.
       
       My brother-in-law was recently diagnosed with lung cancer and has come to live with us in our home. Although heartbreaking and difficult, I know many people who have gone through or are going through a similar experience. It has become a new chapter and challenge in our lives together. Rather than a burden, my husband's brother's presence in our home is a privilege and a joy.
       
       So what are my plans? 
  • Take a long walk with the dogs
  • Bathe the dogs
  • Clean the house
  • Go for a swim at the local indoor pool
  • Finish laundry and ironing
  • Prepare supper 
  • Catch up with thank you notes
  • Arrange to have the furnace cleaned
  • Bake banana bread
   Not sure in what order these jobs will be accomplished. As I said, it is a day off!


Until tomorrow,


Bee Rich

This is the Mika, our daughter's dog.  Mika is a Miniature Schnauzer with a gentle spirit.
This is our Finnegan, going for a walk. She is a 13 year old Jack Russell, with an attitude!

Why Blogging?

Emily-an Inspiration!
       I love to read and write.  I enjoy taking pictures of the subtle changes in the seasons.  I adore telling stories that have meaning to me and just might have meaning to someone else, too.  I have often written journals and poems to express my innermost thoughts and feelings.  Writing can be a personal spiritual experience where questions are asked and answered and thanksgiving can be expressed.
       Then, if even one other person reads the blog entry, shares the experience, and perhaps decides to start up of blog of their own, this form of communication is continued and passed on. My friend, Emily, writes short and very entertaining accounts of her overseas teaching experiences on starlightstarbright. Lindsay and Phil have thepearlcurriculum, which is about their life journey.  These young people have helped me to connect to the blogging world. I am thankful.
      
Until next time,

Bee Rich   
        
Lindsay and Phil of the Pearl Curriculum

       

Sunday, 18 September 2011

Welcome to Our Home!

       Earlier this week I received an email with a collection of door mats like the one above.  The email made me chuckle. Good laughs have been hard to come by lately and these lifted my spirits.  
       I am thinking about trying to purchase one, two or three for our entrances.  Which do you like best? 

This one is cute, but we no longer have a cat at our place.

I like this one- the power of positive thinking. 

This is so obvious!

This one is somewhat true!

Remind you of anything?

I really like this one!

Tee-hee!

Perfect for our family with two dogs!

Too funny!

Wishing you a great week and drop by any time!

Until then,


Bee Rich

Saturday, 17 September 2011

It is the Weekend!

Walking down the lane this morning, I heard an owl ask my name.
       This morning our house was awake at 5:00 a.m.  The sky was clear, the moon was bright, and as I walked the dogs down the lane to pick up the newspaper, the shadows loomed behind and ahead of us.  Then an owl hooted, "whooooo-whoooo-whooo?" Though I did not see her/him, I knew he/she was close by.  It was a perfect moment. 
       Why, you may ask, are we beginning a weekend so early in the morning?  Today is moving day for my brother-in-law, and we have been recruited to assist.  Since his home is two hours away from ours, it means an early start.  It is the least we can do for the man who looked after our Finnegan, a.k.a. the third child, while we taught overseas. 
        It's going to be a great day.  More tomorrow.

Until then,

Bee Rich

Friday, 16 September 2011

A Happy First Day of Work!


My Happily Retired Hubby!
As you can see my dear sweet husband is happily enjoying retirement.  This five pound bass popped on his line earlier this week, just in time for dinner. 

The week has been busy for us.  Not only has hubby done a number of jobs around the house, I have been visiting the schools in the area to introduce myself as a new occasional teacher to the board.  It has been a good experience.  Despite nervousness, I have met many people and conversed about the possiblity of more work. 

The best news is that TODAY I had my first 5:45 a.m. phone call.  The "system" called me to come to a school which is about a one hour from home and spent the day in an Early Learning Centre- a.k.a. Junior and Senior Kindergarten.  I can do this! 

In the meantime, my hubby continued his To-List and I got to play with the kids. 

Hoping you are well,

Bee Rich   

Wednesday, 14 September 2011

Loving the New Life


If you were on facebook today, you may have seen the picture posted by our daughter.  It was during our visit with our six week old grandson and his parents.  My sister was there to capture this moment.  You should have seen the little guy's face.  It reflected his grandpa's enthusiasm.  My face reflects the joy I see in my husband and the appreciation of the moment. 

Our lives are filled with moments such as this one.  I am very thankful for this new life with us, filled with the potential for even more moments.

Love the moment.
Flowers grow out of dark moments.
Therefore, each moment is vital.
It affects the whole.
Life is a succession of such moments and to live each,
is to succeed. 

Live, laugh, love and
Bee Rich




Just for Today


This message popped up in my hotmail inbox yesterday and pretty well put things in perspective for me.  Just for today, I am going to slow down, contemplate its meaning, and appreciate every good thing about my life. More tomorrow,

Until then,

Bee Rich

To realize
The value of a sister/brother
Ask someone
Who doesn't have one.

To realize
The value of ten years:
Ask a newly
Divorced couple.

To realize
The value of four years:
Ask a graduate.

To realize
The value of one year:
Ask a student who
Has failed a final exam.

To realize
The value of nine months:
Ask a mother who gave birth to a stillborn.

To realize
The value of one month:
Ask a mother
Who has given birth to
A premature baby.

To realize
The value of one week:
Ask an editor of a weekly newspaper.

To realize
The value of one minute:
Ask a person
Who has missed the train, bus or plane.

To realize
The value of one second:
Ask a person
Who has survived an accident.

Time waits for no one.

Treasure every moment you have.

You will treasure it even more when
You can share it with someone special.

To realize the value of a friend or family member:

LOSE ONE.

The origin of this letter is unknown,
But it brings good luck to everyone who passes it on.

Remember....
Hold on tight to the ones you love!

Tuesday, 13 September 2011

Today- A New Beginning!

       For the past week I have been waiting for the call.  Between 6 and 10 pm each evening and beginning at 5:45 each morning, I have been anticipating that first call to come to a school and supply teach for a day or even a half day.  Quite frankly, in the back of my mind, I have been driving myself a little crazy. 
       My plan now is to visit each of my seven assigned schools, so that I get an idea of exactly what I might be doing...just a little orientation to the drive, the office, the secretary, the principal and maybe even some of the students. 
       Yesterday I telephoned each of the schools to which I am assigned.  The greetings were mixed.  Some people said, "Come over anytime," while one principal said, "Call back on Friday," and another said, "We will call you."
       I am not discouraged.  This morning I received an email from a principal of two of my schools, inviting me to come on a certain day at a specific time.  Tomorrow, I am going to those two schools and looking forward to a warm reception.  Who knows, maybe they will have lots of absentee teachers and I will have plenty of work! 
       No matter what, I am content because I have taken a step towards my new occasional teaching role.  The picture below demonstrates my feelings at this time.  For those of you who know me, my face cannot hide my emotions.  However, I had better go and brush those teeth!

Until next time,

Bee Rich
So HAPPY!

Monday, 12 September 2011

The Party Revisited!

My Aunt, me and my Mom at the bonfire

      We thoroughly enjoyed hosting a birthday celebration/family reunion for my mom's #80, made especially special because the following people attended:
  • Mom and her husband
  • Mom's sister
  • Cousins from the USA- New York and Connecticut
  • Younger sister
  • Older brother
  • Son and daughter-in-law and grandson
  • Brother-in-law
  • Mom's bffs
  • Next door neighbours
The food was great, too, including the cake! 

I love my family!

Bee Rich

Carrot cake from The Sunflower Bakeshop - the other fire!


Sunday, 11 September 2011

The Party's Over


       After weeks of planning for my mom's 80th birthday party, I realized that I had forgotten to buy her a gift.  Hosting the party was a major accomplishment because my mom's family is from the USA and this weekend was September 11 anniversary.  Despite the date, however, all of the "Holcomb" families were represented, including my brother and sister, cousins from New York and Connecticut and my mom's surviving sister. 
       The gift I finally gave my mom is a print out of THIS IS YOUR LIFE, framed and mounted for her to read at the party.  So much better than a poem written by me.  She also received a picture of her first great grandchild, many cards, a beautiful silk scarf and funky purple slippers.
       In all this I received a beautiful bouquet of flowers, arranged by my amazing cousin-in-law (but more like a sister) Gloria May, who celebrated her 40th wedding anniversary on September 4th.  Thank you GMK and Jon, for the flowers, hugs and precious memories.  Safe travels, everyone!
     More to come tomorrow, today I am happily tired. 

Until then,

Bee Rich

Friday, 9 September 2011

It's FRIDAY and SUNNY!

McArthur may be coming for a vist!

       This is the weekend that I have been anticipating for several months.  It is the third of three events we have hosted here on Little Silver Lake this summer.  It is my mom's 80th Birthday Celebration and Holcomb Reunion!  The invitations went our earlier in the summer and even though not everyone is coming, I am so looking forward to the get together. 

        Not only the birthday girl and her husband will be here.  The birthday girl's sister (my aunt), her eldest daughter (my cousin), her husband (my cousin-in-law), their daughter (my second cousin), my brother, my sister, my husband, his brother and my Connecticut cousin and his wife, will all be here to celebrate with one another. Maybe, just maybe, our little grandson and his parents will surprise us with a visit. 

        So, what am I doing?  Blogging!  It appears to be one way of motivating myself to get through my list of things to do...the list, written neatly on a piece of paper, just doesn't work anymore.  I think it is a common form of procrastination, but I am not sure.  It is a beautiful sunny day and the weather people are saying it will continue throughout the weekend.  How lovely!

       By dinner time I hope to have everything completed.  Check in tomorrow and see how it is going. 

Until then,

Bee Rich





Thursday, 8 September 2011

Let's Talk about the Weather!

Sint Maarten in January 2011
        Today is the third day of school and I have not been called in to teach.  As I am an occasional teacher, I realize that the first few weeks are going to be slow and that I must be patient.  Today I am thinking about the past three school years when both my husband and I were fortunate to teach in warmer climates.  We spent two years in Cairo, Egypt and one year in Simpson Bay, Sint Maarten.  This is the first September since 2008 where we have been able to talk about the weather, Canadian style.  And it is refreshing. 
        The director of education said to us upon our arrival in Egypt, "I can tell you the weather for the next 365 days-sunny and hot."  He was right.  We never felt the necessity to talk about the weather, because it was always the same- sunny, hot and dry.
         Living in the hot and humid Caribbean was a quite different.  I remember sweating from August through October, battening down for Hurricane Earl in late August, enjoying the trade winds throughout the winter months, and then sweating again come May and June.  We never considered wearing a jacket or sweater, it was that warm. 
       That brings me to this week.  It has been cloudy, windy and cool for three days in a row.  There has been some much needed rain and believe it our not, some of the maple trees are changing colour.  The sumac trees are bright red.  The yellow poplar leaves have blown to the ground.  Acorns abound and consequently there are little black squirrels running across the roads, getting ready for winter. 
For my daily walks with the dogs I have worn long pants, fleecy sweaters and a rain coat.  Yesterday the neighbours were burning leaves with the resultant autumn smell of smoke in the air.
        I feel so fortunate. There is absolutely no place like home and I am free once again to talk about the weather!
Silvery Lane in September 2011
Don't forget, wherever you are,


Bee Rich
 

Wednesday, 7 September 2011

Reality Check-Occasional Teaching is Occasional

       Yesterday was the first day of school!  I was so excited because it was also the first day that I could be called in as an Occasional Teacher.  The probability of teaching on the first day of the new school year is pretty low, but I thought, "I am going to be prepared." 
       I went to bed early, with my teaching clothes ready, Jeep filled with gas, lunch in the fridge, and teaching supplies beside the door.  Not a good idea!  I woke up at 2 a.m. and couldn't get back to sleep, anxious about what the day might bring.  After reading for a couple of hours and falling asleep on the chair in the living room, I made my way back to bed. 
       I woke up at 6:45 a.m., an hour after the occasional teaching calls begin, and finally accepted the fact that no teacher misses the first day of school unless there are dire circumstances.  I don't wish that on anyone.  I rolled over for an extra half hour of sound sleep.

       Instead of occasional teaching, this is what I was able to accomplish on the first day of school:
  • Phoned Mom and wish her a happy birthday
  • Took a long walk down the road and visited with cottage neighbours spending their final days at the lake
  • Organized rooms for the upcoming family reunion (this weekend!)
  • Read the Ottawa Citizen, cover to cover
  • Almost finished reading Daughters-in-Law, borrowed from my brother last weekend
  • Completed half of the e-training for the Board of Education
  • Helped my husband do the lake testing and rock collecting
  • Signed up for a First Aid Instructor update in Ottawa
  • Enjoyed a glass of wine while preparing dinner
       I am going to get this right.  Instead of expecting to be called in to teach and being disappointed, I will celebrate when I do get a call.  I am going to take advantage of the fine fall weather and maybe start thinking about Christmas!

In the meantime,

Bee Rich

Tuesday, 6 September 2011

Happy Birthday to My Mother!


September 6 rolls around every year and I think, "It's my Mom's birthday.  I need to give her a call."  Sometimes we get together for a meal or just chat on the phone.  Now, this is not the only time I call my mom.  Sometimes, it's only once a month, especially when we are out of the country.  But with the advent of Skype I have been able to connect with her more frequently. I like to know what is going on in her life, how she is feeling, and when we are going to get together again?
Today is her 80th birthday!  HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MOM!
I called her to wish her a happy birthday. She sounded wonderful, at least 20 years younger, and much more energetic than I feel today, at my relatively young age of 55!
I was wondering why she felt so good...well the answer is that she has many friends and a generous husband, Jim.  She had a nice surprise party at the Legion with sandwiches and a cake with her name on it.  The only thing she wanted for her birthday was a special coffee-maker, the kind that dispenses one cup of lovely coffee at a time.  And guess what?  That is what she got.  Not sure if it was the gift or the caffeine that lightened her mood.  It doesn't matter.  For the moment, she is happy.  That is what counts.  
I hope you have a happy day, whether or not it is your birthday!

Bee Rich

Monday, 5 September 2011

Labour Day To Do List- Part 2


Ah, the list!!!
How did I do?

  • Clean the house CHECK

  • Weed the gardens CHECK

  • Helping with lake testing (as my partner in life is now the Lake Steward) NO CHECK- Not enough sunlight (besides, he went fishing!)

  • Pull rocks out of the lake for the new and improved boat ramp NO CHECK- Too cold!

  • Empty the compost CHECK

  • Prepare for my mom's 80th birthday party/family reunion next weekend CHECK

  • Prepare for a week of occasional teaching, which may or may not happen (likely not, as tomorrow is the first day of school and most teachers like to be in their classrooms during this important routine-setting getting-to-know-the students time CHECK

  • There are also family members to call, thank you letters to send, emails to respond to and Facebook pictures to upload. NO CHECKS


  • It is already past 6 pm and time for those supply teaching calls to come in.  No phone calls until after 10 pm, and then it will be sleep time.

    I am really looking forward to tomorrow, even if I don't get called in to teach.  There will be another to-do list, no doubt. 

    To my friends who are starting a new school year tomorrow, enjoy the day with your new crop of students!

    Bee Rich

    Labour Day To Do List


    This morning we awoke to the sound of rain gently tapping on the roof and water running down the drain pipe outside our bedroom.  There is a definite change in the weather, with overcast skies, cool temperatures, breezy breaths of air, and leaves falling from the trees. 
    I am now sitting here, pondering my list of jobs to do on this Labour Day and, as you can see, spending some time NOT doing those jobs!
    • Clean the house
    • Weed the gardens
    • Helping with lake testing (as my partner in life is now the Lake Steward)
    • Pull rocks out of the lake for the new and improved boat ramp
    • Empty the compost
    • Prepare for my mom's 80th birthday party/family reunion next weekend
    • Prepare for a week of occasional teaching, which may or may not happen (likely not, as tomorrow is the first day of school and most teachers like to be in their classrooms during this important routine-setting getting-to-know-the students time.
    • There are also family members to call, thank you letters to send, emails to respond to and Facebook pictures to upload. Hmm, where to start? 
    I will just have one more cup of coffee and then get to my Labour Day to-do List.

    Wishing you and wonderful end of the summer almost the fall day.

    And don't forget,

    Bee Rich

    Saturday, 3 September 2011

    Birthdays are Beautiful

    Birthday pancake

    This past few weeks we have celebrated the birthdays of three important people in my life. 

    Our daughter turned 29 at the end of July, but we celebrated it in August with a day in Kingston visiting Old Fort Henry.
    Fort Henry- a great place to visit!
    My hubby turned 60 yesterday. We celebrated with cake and ice cream, went to Ottawa to visit his brother in the hospital, and went for supper with my brother. 


    Today we travelled to Lancaster Legion to celebrate my mom's 80 years. 


    We are all getting older!  The circle of life continues.  I am so thankful for the time that we have together, one day at a time.

    Take care and...

    Bee Rich